Easy choices, hard life; Hard choices, easy life. – Unknown
- Don’t spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all that I ask for. I’m only testing you;
- Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it – It makes me feel more secure;
- Don’t let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages;
- Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly “big”;
- Don’t correct me in front of other people, if you can help it. I’ll take much more notice if you talk with me in private;
- Don’t make me feel my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values;
- Don’t protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes;
- Don’t take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need;
- Don’t be too upset when I say, “I hate you.” It isn’t you I hate, but your power to thwart me;
- Don’t nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf;
- Don’t make rash promises. Remember that I feel badly let down when promises are broken;
- Don’t forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. This is why I’m not always very accurate;
- Don’t tax my honesty too much. I’m easily frightened into telling lies;
- Don’t be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you;
- Don’t put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere;
- Don’t tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real, and you can do so much to reassure me if you understand;
- Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither;
- Don’t ever think it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm toward you;
- Don’t forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult to keep pace with me, but please do try;
- Don’t forget I love experimenting. I couldn’t get on without it, so please put up with it;
- Don’t forget that I can’t thrive without lots of understanding love, but I don’t need to tell you, do I?
Source Olga Zhuravskaya
…as the answer to “Can’t you [achieve something]?”
Harry Baker is very entertaining in this TED talk
It’s been a long time since I was last in a gym. My view was why would you pay to exercise inside, staring mindlessly at a blank or mirrored wall when you could be climbing a fell, enjoying the view and getting lungfuls of fresh air in the process rather than the heady smell of sweaty bodies. Recently however, we haven’t been getting out walking as much as we’d like; I want to say everyday life gets in the way but that’s really only an excuse; it can get in the way sometimes but only if you let it!
Anyway, to placate the great deity that readily punishes us for abusing the only body we’ll ever know, I need to spend more calories than I’ve eaten recently. Along with that, there’s a ton of podcasts I should catch up on; both from a work and professional viewpoint, and others from a hobby/entertainment/personal growth stance. So, I am going to kill two birds with 1 stone; I’m going to spend time over the winter staring at that blank wall/mirror, plug in some earphones and catch up with the backlog of material.
All I can say is gyms have come a long way since I was last in one. Everything has gone ultra digital. There’s displays built into all the equipment now, letting you know exactly how well (or poorly) you are doing in your workout. There are preprogrammed profiles inbuilt so the only thing you have to do is select how mean you want the machine to be to you and then hit Start. Everything is timed, measured and recorded for posterity using your own personal smartcard.
There are the usual TVs on the walls but also immediately in front of you. So if what’s on the main screen isn’t to your taste, you can watch The Great British Bake-off instead, reminding you why you need to visit the gym in the first place. And if all that fails to peak your interest, you can plug your i-device & headphones into each machine for a more insular “head down and crack on” session. And that last option suits me just fine!
I don’t yet know what will happen in the Springtime. The aim is always to spend evenings exerting surplus calories somewhere, somehow. Perhaps, given the poor summer we’ve had this year, more and more calories will be spent staring at a sweaty version of me in the mirror.