So, the invitations have been sent out and the RSVPs are beginning to come back. There’s an unspoken understanding between us that…
- neither of us rush to pick up the mail too quickly when we get in from work; &
- we each open half the replies that arrive back each day.
There was an unexpected hiccup at the Rendezvous Hotel. We made a block booking of rooms for people staying over. However, the hotel changed their computer system after I made the booking and now the reference number I put on the information sheet that’s gone out with the invites is useless. I’ll admit I gave them a bit of a hard time over that.
There’s an empty wedding list setup with House of Fraser. We can’t add anything to it until 3 months before. We moved in together over a year ago so many of the things traditionally bought as a wedding gift, we already have two of. However, there are a few items we would like to replace.
As an alternative, we’ve setup up a JustGiving page to raise charitable donations for Mountain Rescue England & Wales.
I did some digging on popular first dance songs and got too long a list far too quickly so I’m in the middle of culling the non-starters. I’ve made Vicky weep a couple of times when she’s heard a few of my first-cut choices. Nothing by Aerosmith, Shania Twain or Bryan Adams made that cut. Don’t get me wrong, I think they’re talented artists with some very powerful, emotive songs and I don’t mind them being played at the wedding; they’re just not going to be the first dance.
I’ve had a brand new, wing-collar shirt altered so that I don’t look like a short-armed gorilla on the day.
We’re getting there but I’ve still got a To-Do list as long as your arm. At the moment, for every item I cross off, I seem to add at least two more. I’m looking forward to the day when it starts to shrink again.
Well, in a little over 6 months, it’ll be Mr. & Mrs. Alex Fleming. I know we’re not the first but that’s big!
I swear by to-do lists and so I gathered some together to get an idea of where we should be up to by now and more importantly, what we might have forgotten. It was quite satisfying to see that we’re pretty much on track. There are a few things we haven’t done yet which we should have by now according to this list but we have already ticked off some of the up-coming stuff. So it balances out quite nicely.
I started reading up on wedding traditions and related folklore. I saw one about doing very weird stuff with lozenges. I’ll leave the possibilities up to your imagination. Suffice to say at that point, I stopped reading.
Last weekend, we both independently chose the same set of vows. It’s surprising how much of a boost little things like that can give. Some things we expected to be easy haven’t always been while other seemingly more difficult stuff just fell into place.
The florist is happy to put together buttonholes with heather and white flowers. This was one of the things given more prominence than it really deserved.
I spent a whole day researching and booking flights and the first few nights of the honeymoon. I found that Expedia do not always quote the cheapest price or the most direct flight. We booked direct with both the airline (for the most direct flights) and the hotel (because it was much cheaper). My credit card got such a shock I haven’t dared use it since.
The wording for the invites has gone off to the design/print company and so now we’re just waiting on them coming back with ideas.
All in all, a very productive holiday season.